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Storm Damage
Raymond Bechard has a confrontation with his 87-year old mother, which reminds him of how much memories — even 42-year-old memories — can shape us. I was pounding on the wall in the hallway between...
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The Girl Is the New Drug
An old, flesh-based business model for the modern “bad guy.” Gang members are smart. The streets where they live give them a perfect view of how to profit from the worst urges of manhood. Over the...
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Sex Trafficking On Google
Should we rejoice that Google is giving money to non-profits to fight sex-trafficking, even though there is sex-trafficking on Google itself? To the multitudes of anti-human trafficking charities in...
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Why Your Daughter May Be the Most Popular Drug on the Street
Sex trafficking is becoming an overwhelmingly popular form of criminal activity, Raymond Bechard writes, and no girl is safe. EDITOR’S NOTE: Due to the number of heated comments, we remind our...
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What Do You Really Know About Hookers?
As the human trafficking problem worsens, Raymond Bechard writes, so does the issue of false and misleading media. “Statistics are like women; mirrors of purest virtue and truth, or like whores to...
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Why Vietnam Vets Are America’s Greatest Heroes
Raymond Bechard pays tribute to the men who hardly received any while they fought for our country. Lately, I’ve been watching the much-deserved reception of American soldiers returning home from war....
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Why I Reported Facebook to the FBI
Why sell your wares on a street corner when you can actively cold call prospective buyers of sexual services on a site like Facebook? I’ve reported crimes to the FBI before. This one was different. In...
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How to Make A Fool of Yourself (and Change the World)
“Real impact takes sacrifice.” How do we come to terms with wrong side of the human heart? For whatever reason, it continues to beat from generation to generation; forever pumping bad blood through...
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You See It, You Own It
In a foxhole in Afghanistan, writes Raymond Bechard, all you need is water and baby wipes. That and bullets. “We were sitting on an IED for two days one time,” the soldier tells me, “and we didn’t...
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How to Lose a Guy…Forever
Raymond Bechard discusses the trend of current relationships and the top 15 reasons why they just won’t work out. I was talking to a guy installing carpet in a friend’s home the other day. For some...
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How to Lose a Woman…Forever
Raymond Bechard summarizes Travis McGee’s views on women into 22 rules to losing the love of your life forever. Only a woman of pride, complexity and emotional tension is genuinely worth the act of...
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Tell me… What Are Men For?
What is the purpose of men today? What is their place in society, culture, relationships? Do men even have a purpose? Simply put, what are men for? The readers of The Good Men Project are uniquely...
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Fly the Friendly Skies of Afghanistan [Video]
This three-minute hidden video I took while flying over Afghanistan explains why I rarely complain about flying commercially anywhere else. Flying across Afghanistan isn’t like taking a trip to...
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Guys: Here Are 16 Warning Signs You’re In An Abusive Friendship
Should we be surprised that a man who abuses women – emotionally, mentally or physically – would also exhibit the same destructive behavior toward the men they know? Raymond Bechard discovers the hard...
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After Charleston: What White Churches and Pastors Should Do, But Won’t
The killing of nine people at the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church in Charleston, South Carolina is just the latest in a long list of attacks targeting Black Churches in the United States. —...
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When Did We Start Seeing the End of the World as a Good Thing?
Raymond Bechard looks back to try to discover when and why we lost all hope—and how we can press the ‘reset’ button without annihilating ourselves in the process. — At some point we turned the end of...
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7 Reasons Why You Should See The End Of The Tour
Raymond Bechard reviews an important movie for men and mankind. — David Foster Wallace created a legacy he could never foresee. Or maybe he did and that’s what terrified and depressed him. That there...
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Here’s Why Your Kids AND YOU Need To See Inside Out
“This is not just a kid’s movie.” says Raymond Bechard. “It explains why we need all our emotions, even the “bad” ones.” — Human emotions are typically the driving force behind all great stories. The...
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When Good Men Try To Be A**holes
The movie “99 Homes” explores what happens when a good man tries to become successful by emulating the man who crushed him. Ray Bechard reviews the movie and explores the themes behind it. —- Some...
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How to Win The War Between Good and Evil
View image | gettyimages.com Raymond Bechard looks at what we must do to look evil in the face and conquer our worst fears. — No matter where you live, people may come for you in the night. One...
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